Parenting is a tough job.  When we accept a child into our lives, we accept a profound commitment to them.

Children look to their parents for:

Parent-directed activities provide learning moments:

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Children in charge create chaos.  They do not have enough experience to be in charge and actually become fearful when allowed too much control.  On the other hand, over-controlling parents beget controlling children, so achieving a balance is the art of parenting.

Speaking with one voice is imperative.  The answer to a child’s question “Is it OK if I . . .?” is “Let me check with [spouse], and we will get back to you.”  Instant answers not required as much as UNITED answers.  A child will manipulate only as much as the parents allow.  Unfortunately, the more the child manipulates successfully, the greater the danger for the marital relationship . . . and the worse it is for the child.


Give me a call if you need some help with this beautiful and terrifying job of parenting.